For those parents who have impulsive or rebellious children who prefer to march to their own beat, breathe deeply. I was moved by a piece in the September 2nd, 2009 NY Times Sunday Magazine Section about 39 year old Spike Jonze. http://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/06/magazine/06jonze-t.html Spike barely made it out of High School. BMX motocross and skateboarding, it…